Human relationships are the physical representation of the relationships between different parts of the content of consciousness. Whatever thoughts are contained in your consciousness will manifest in the form of human relationships.
For example, if you hold thoughts of conflict in your consciousness, you will perceive conflict between people. The people in your reality will seek to harm each other. If you hold thoughts of love in your consciousness, you will perceive loving relationships between people.
If you hold thoughts of attractiveness, new relationships will come to your avatar. If you hold thoughts of repulsiveness, your avatar will manifest that in his/her relationships.
How can I use this model to improve my relationships?
For every person whose relationship (to you or to another person) you want to improve, ask yourself what that person represents? What part of consciousness does this person symbolize? Then describe the person aloud. What adjectives come to mind? The adjective you use to describe other people will also apply to the part of you this person represents. If you hate another person, it’s only because you hate the part of yourself that person represents. If you love another person, it’s because you love the part of yourself that person represents.