What is reality? Can one have reality without agreement? If two people were playing chess, then one could say they are playing a “game of chess” — a reality. But, if one of them said, “I am not playing this anymore,” would there be a reality to the two people of a “game of chess” or not? What if one started playing on the same board, with the same pieces, with the same player, only he changed the rules to “checkers.” Would that ever cause some confusion with the guy playing under the chess rules!
We all can do this! We can change the rules and continue to play where we are right now in the same environment (board) with the same people (pieces). By our WORD we can make our own rules and state, “THIS is how the game will be played — from now on, we play by MY rules!”